Looking for a second baby

Every family of three eventually has a question: When to have a second baby? Each case is unique, some parents decide to do it when their first child is still small, others will prefer to let more time pass. Whatever the case, a second pregnancy will never be like the first. Time has passed, so your age is not the same, plus your attention will be focused on your first child and this could affect the family dynamics.

If the decision has been made and it is time to embark on a new adventure to bring a new member into the world, it is important to take into account some aspects so that everything goes smoothly.

When is the best time?

We would like to have the answer along with a magic wand that will solve all our doubts as parents, but the reality is that this is something you are going to feel. The economic, emotional, and even employment situation will play an important role in making this decision.

For many families, signs of independence in their older child are a sign. It happens when he or she has stopped breastfeeding, is out of diapers and is communicating fluently. It's at that point that things usually get easier for parents.

Start taking care of your body.

Living a healthy lifestyle in preparation for a second pregnancy is ideal. Preparing your body with a balanced diet, physical activity, and avoiding alcohol and tobacco use will help you achieve your goal. A visit to the doctor is vital, he/she will be able to guide you and clear up any doubts.

Is the second pregnancy easier?

The great advantage of having already gone through a pregnancy and having a baby is that you already know all the basics of both processes. It is likely that you will experience this pregnancy in a more relaxed way, but at the same time it will be a new experience. During the first pregnancy your attention was focused on you and your future baby. Now you will have less time for yourself, because there is already a little one who needs your care, as well as a newborn who is about to arrive. So it may be less scary than the first time, but that doesn't make it any easier.

What if it doesn't come?

The second pregnancy may take a while to arrive, and this is very common. It is usually linked to the age of the parents. As the age increases, the chances decrease and this makes the process longer than the first time. Specialists recommend trying for at least a year before worrying, and at the end of the year to see a specialist for follow-up.

Making the decision to bring a second child into your life can be difficult. Not only do you need to be prepared financially, but also emotionally, as it involves a big change in your routines.

If you have already made the decision and are venturing into a second pregnancy, we hope our advice is helpful and wish you the best.